why when ever i click on one of the forum thingis the link to get back to the index says "We are going to move!!"
should this be happening? and if so, what does it mean?

Yes it should!

We are moving to a new domain name!! It's www.thetwilightforums.com

We are setting it up as I type! You can join and post, but the official switch over date will probably Friday!

ok cool! but does this mean i'd have to create another account on that website and everything?

yeah. :[

but it should be better in the long run. :]